Helping Others !

We come across so many people in our day to day life. Be it the talkative cab driver or a rude security guard or a new colleague at work. And its natural that as soon as you interact with a person you tag him, as I did. Ok, then you have another round of interaction with him, tag changes. Maybe first it was rude then it is nice, or it changed from nice to fake. Now this is all in your mind, and you haven’t said anything to the person yet, as you think i will hardly matter for him about what do you think for him as a person.

For me it matters, I don’t want to be rude, seem careless or look fake. I mind myself before speaking or taking any impulsive decision. I don’t want look as an emotional fool, but I want people to look at me as a kind person. Help is something you can do without asking to be a nice person. I do that very often, so often that it now part of my personality. You can be only nice to people but when in need you don't help them even if you can, you will be tagged as fake.

Helping is easy! Help someone to regain confidence, to cheer up from a bad mood or answer a query for them. Is simple, but it takes a lot of effort, you need to give up the fear of being used or taken as granted. To help a family member comes under duty but to help someone out at work can be a matter of choice. Sometimes you don’t help a colleague because you don’t want to share your knowledge or may be you want him to get to the solution. It looks rude but it again can be beneficial in long term for him. So lets help someone when in need and not just seem to be nice but be actually nice to them. Feels Good :-)